The Journey of a Trailing Husband: Part Two – The Baby3 November 2016 in Family Life / Getting Settled tagged #lifeinthebay / #loveliveshere / family / kids / making friends / transition by Gareth Lea Nothing prepares you for that kind of news. I thought my world was about to crumble. We were so far away from family and completely alone. It was too much to take in. We were having a baby, we were about to be parents!